P.S. I Love you

"Myth or manipulation, we all want to fall in love. That experience makes us feel completely alive. Our everyday reality is shattered, and we are flung into the heavens. lt may only last a moment, an hour, but that doesn't diminish its value. We're left with memories we treasure for the rest of our lives. l read, ''When we fall in love, we hear Puccini in our heads.'' l love that. His music expresses our need for passion and romantic love. We listen to La Bóheme or Turandot, or read Wuthering Heights, - - or watch Casablanca, and a little of that love lives in us too. So the final question is: Why do people want to fall in love - - when it can have such a short run and be so painful? - Propagation of the species? - We need to connect with somebody. - Are we culturally preconditioned? - Good, but too intellectual for me. l think it's because, as some of you may already know ... While it does last, it feels great.''


The feeling of being loved and to love doesn't start with or end at whether it is materialized into a formal relationship or not. It is way beyond that. I remember the lines of that song by EUPHORIA called 'Kaise bhulegi mera naam':

Kya hua aage agar mil na sake hum,

kya hua ke mere vaadon mein na dum, 

Pyaar toh hua na kam,,

It means the success of any love story is not whether whether they lived their lives together or not, its whether they cherished each other throughout their lives or not.

As the complexities of life are increased, the distance and differences between two individuals is exponentially increasing. A person who had been right for you just two years back, might not be the same or you yourself might not be the same after two years. Your expectations, wants, liking, preferences, priority might change and hence your relationship might change.

But what does not change with people who couldn't meet is that fondness. Any two lovers who don't make it with each other, whenever remember each other, they always share the same fondness for each other. Not because being with each other could have brought a discomfort in the relationship ....'Familarity breeds contempt' types. But because what they are left with is the best memories of the person which never change irrespective of they themselves changing. No matter what happens in life, they still have a hope and feeling that that one person could make my life better, that one thought brings smile and happiness......there's hope, there's life and there's longing for that person.

I don't know whether i was able to explain it or not but i feel that if anything could shine as bright as it ever could even for the shortest time, it is more valuable than something that keeps shining all throughout but not to its fullest ability.

Happiness,

Kally :).

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Unknown said…
WOW, WHAT A TOPIC TO HARP ON!!!!

I somehow have not been able to fathom this love business throughout my life. Maybe that could be one of the reason i didn't had any GF in my college days. Where is true LOVE these days. All i see in the eyes of the lovers is Opportunity,Compromise and what not but LOVE. I am talking about the couples that line up the Nariman Point promenade. But does that mean there is no LOVE....Nay there is love, there has to be after all Allah made us in pairs. So the question is where do we find true LOVE? I see true LOVE in the eyes of the laborer who toils hard to provide for his family. I see true LOVE in the eyes of mother who despite all odds and sacrificing herself,her career tends to her little ones and her husband, never complaining one bit.
Yes it's true that there is no feeling like LOVE and i feel blessed that i have got a wife who loves me unconditionally and is completely devoted to my needs and my kid's as well. May Allah bless her with Jannat(Amen).
That's all i could come up with in the short break of 5 min that i could afford.
Keep writing for you keep my grey cells active.
November 15, 2010 at 1:50 AM
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